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Awaken the Healer Within
Be Beloved

Self Love Initiation

The 'Be Beloved' 9week portal to awaken self love to fill the emptiness and end the longing, by learning a powerful self healing modality, so you can self source and embody abundant love

with Dr. Joy Lovesey

Next Live Teaching 3rd March - 12th May 2022 
9 week rebirth into self love

Who This Is For

This is made especially for you if... 

💓 You are a sensitive or empathic soul, called to be in service to others

💓 You want to be able to work in service to others more effectively, without overloaded, overwhelmed, or burnout


💓 You are mostly successful in life in an 'outward' way, but something is missing on the inside - you feel an emptiness or longing for love

💓 You want to thoroughly enjoy your own company and be able to genuinely fill yourself up with love

💓 You want to be able to fully receive love offered to you by others, but you sometimes feel like nothing makes you feel better for long, if at all

💓 You have been waiting for other people to show up and give you the love you long for and have had enough of waiting

💓 You find it hard to consider your own wants and needs, and to value your own energy as much as others'

If you said "yes" to even ONE of these statements (or more!) then I want to help you get the inside feeling great so that you can give your gifts to all those you help from a place that will help so much more, WITHOUT burdening you anymore!

This course is not for you if you disagree with any of these:

👍 I am an empath, or am highly empathic, and I am either working, trained to work, or called to transition into working in a helping profession (healers, wellness practitioners, counsellors, therapists, coaches, teachers, nurses, carers, support workers, social workers, or another person focussed service profession).

👍 I am willing to change some of my old habits that don't actually work for me and implement new ones.

👍 I want a deeper relationship to myself (and all of life!) and I am willing to look at the icky bits when that's what it takes.

👍 I want more balance in my life between work, relationships, health, family, spirituality, play, and creativity, and to feel a clear sense of purpose in all these areas

👍 I want to have an independent and sustainable self love practice, and want to learn from others (like Joy) so that I can empower myself to do this.

👍 I know I am the only one capable of transforming myself, and I am ready to take responsibility for my own healing.

👍 I am comfortable in groups and respect group dynamics and other people's boundaries

If you said "no" to any of these, the LIVE course is not for you, but you would still be welcome to take the self paced version, because self love is for everyone!

This journey will empower you to cultivate a beautiful relationship with your self. 
From this foundation, so much else can flow, and you may experience deep shifts in other areas of your life as a result. 🌟

I-Spiral Transformational Process

Since I've researched this for a PhD project and been a philosophy teacher since 2008, I have created this process with very careful thought to pedagogy and the inner workings of genuine lasting transformation - the result is a transformational process that includes all of the necessary ingredients: beliefs at the level of mind, behaviours at the level of body, and emotions that bridge them, along with spirit which both transcends and includes them all. Because our beliefs effect our emotions and behaviour, our emotions effect our belief and actions, and our action effects our belief and emotion, genuine change needs to include all of them, and this course guides you in a spiral that moves through these levels in turn three times. This is the I-Spiral transformational process. If you work it, IT WORKS!

Each spiral round moves through belief,  emotion, and embodiment...


Each step has some or all of these ingredients:

  • Learning (teaching core concepts)

  • Practice (to engage with daily during this step)

  • Exercise (one-off experience to gain insight)

  • Journey (guided inner work)

  • Shift (key perspective change / re-orientation)

  • Journal prompts (increasing self knowledge, illuminating your inner wisdom)

  • Tracking (measuring success)

The journey spirals through the aspects of belief, emotion, embodiment, and spirit so that self love embeds through all levels of being, to create a genuine and lasting transformation inside, and shift in your reality outside  🌟


If you aren't sure if you need more self love, or what lack of self love looks like, here are some symptoms of lack of self love, that this course aims to support you to overcome:

  • Poor boundaries

  • A fierce "inner critic"

  • Frequent apologising

  • Self sabotage, including procrastination

  • Not trusting your feelings / second guessing yourself

  • Symptoms from over-empathising (taking on other people’s stuff)

  • Not enjoying your own company or finding it hard to be alone

  • Putting up with less than you deserve 

  • Attracting people with compatible wounds that play out with pain and suffering

  • Co-dependent relationships

  • Being a target for narcissistic abuse

  • Questioning whether your loved ones/clients really love you/respect you, or would still if they knew you better

  • Fearing you will be abandoned or rejected

  • Over-giving

  • Overworking / hyper-achievement

  • Imbalance in life, e.g. successful in work but not relationships, or vice versa

  • Feeling you are not good enough

  • Feeling empty inside

  • Stored unprocessed emotions like loneliness, grief and shame

  • Some forms of self neglect, including poor eating habits, including over/under-eating, poor self care, or tolerating unhealthy people and situations for too long.

Trying to create a sustainable professional practice under these conditions is TOO HARD!!! You are fighting against the inner current. I want to help END THE WAR inside, and give you tools that will empower you to end these patterns and then continue to help others WITHOUT suffering for it! 


The most profound and lasting transformation will be the result of your habitual engagement in the tools and practices offered through this process - for those who participate fully I know that what is taught on this course will be everything you need to get these results.


The vision I hold, and will do everything I can to support you to manifest is that your new normal will be:

  • Enjoying your relationship with yourself so much, and being able to stay present with yourself even in hard times

  • Being comfortable with yourself, finding it easier to express yourself authentically

  • More security from knowing you 100% hold space for yourself, and greater resilience in vulnerability (leading to increased capacity to hold space for others)

  • Knowing yourself intimately, and loving yourself unconditionally (meaning you can love others more unconditionally and be more present with them)

  • Clear boundaries you assertively uphold

  • Feeling clear and purposeful - if you already have a professional practice, this may become more meaningful and enjoyable, and if you've been struggling to get that set up, you will be able to do so

  • Advocating for what you are worth in all areas of life (hint: it is a lot!!!)

  • Passionate self encouragement, self belief, and calm confidence leading to greater success in reaching your personal and professional goals

  • Sweet enjoyment of life’s pleasures, more ease in resting and more joy in playing, and more spontaneous and creative flow

  • Giving from abundance and overflow

  • Effortless healthy habits and self care

  • Magnetic attractiveness to the right people, and more fulfilling and emotionally intimate relationships

  • Feeling whole, and full, and DEEPLY BELOVED

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“Since taking this course I value myself more highly, and I listen to my own needs and act accordingly. I have learned to not only accept myself for who I am but also to see the beauty within me and love myself for who I am […] I started the course without even knowing what self love felt like. This is only something that I only learned during the course.” - Steffi 🌟

What  Graduates Say...

  Live Teaching Schedule

The  sessions will be on a Thursday  - I'm shooting for 7pm Thursdays although the time may change to accommodate the timezones of those who enrol. If you don't want to miss out, please let me know your timezone and availability when we speak!


First Rung of the Healing Spiral

3rd March, 10th March, 17th March

Second Rung of the Healing Spiral

31st March, 7th April, 14th April

Third Rung of the Healing Spiral

28th April, 5th May, 12th May

These sessions are all via zoom, and if you miss one, send your questions ahead of the session so I can answer it still, adn then catch up from the replay.

Course Format 

💓 The Be Beloved Self Love Initiation 3 month LIVE immersion 💓

3rd March - 12th May 2022


This will be a small group to keep that intimate vibe, of fellow empathic souls committed to love themselves and others, and we will be diving deep. The course includes 4 elements: 

Weekly Live Zoom Sessions 

We will meet live on zoom on Thursdays to receive key teachings and practices to take into your week and integrate through your own self awareness and practice, as well as whatever coaching, healing, or questions are needed to deepen the transformation process.


This will be a POWERFUL opportunity: the energies of love, truth, and compassion will be held strongly as the container for your immersion during these 9 weeks. I will tend to the group field and be holding you in healing and prayer for the duration of this rebirth into self love. 

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Online Course Platform (with App)

The self-study tools, practices, and resources that you can use and refer back to via lifetime access to the awesome and easy online course platform or phone app where you will get week by week:

  • Teaching videos of each weekly step

  • Guided self healing journeys 

  • Guided meditations

  • Downloadable audios

  • Self love exercises 

  • Pdf downloads

  • + Bonuses: 

    • Self Love Yoga session​

    • Self Love Chi Gung session

    • Self Love Conscious dance session

    • Self Love Music Playlist

    • Journal prompts

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1-2-1 Healing Accelerator Sessions

I'm offering four VERY powerful 1-2-1 healing sessions, each with a specific goal to accelerate your healing process. While you will get all the tools you need for self healing, these sessions will make the process more efficient and go deeper, clearing decades (often centuries!) of beliefs, stuck programmes and patterns, blocked emotions and more. These will be: 

- One belief clearing session, using Theta Healing to clear, cancel, and delete those unhelpful false beliefs quicker than anything else I know! You'll be prepared with a list of beliefs and we will blast through them in this session.

- One emotional clearing session, using Vortex Healing to optimise the emotional pathways on an energetic level and support releasing and processing emotions on the deepest level on an ongoing basis. 

- One action coaching session, using IFS therapy (Internal Family Systems) to get into the deep reasons for your current patterns of behaviour and understand the way to adopt new healthy, balanced, self loving ones. 

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PLUS one bonus session:

- One integration, activation, or accountability session. This is to use as you need it, and can include any of my modalities or coaching to support you in the best way tailored to the one and only, beautiful YOU!

4 x 90 minute 1-2-1 sessions are bookable at your convenience throughout the course.

Online Community

You’ll also get invited to the community group where you can get extra feedback, support, and inspiration from other beautiful souls in the self love tribe, including me.


Included with this course are three special lessons brought to you by practitioners who have crafted their modalities into a special 'self love' session for you to use, follow, and repeat as often as you like. These are 40mins-1hr each. 


- Conscious Dance for Self Love

- Yoga for Self Love

- Chi Gung for Self Love

Additional Bonuses


JOURNAL PROMPTS - This collection of prompts are a standalone course by itself, and include audio prompts for verbal answers as well as written prompts to support different learning styles and preferences, and cover a wide range of topics to get into the heart of the matter and illuminate key topics with your own powerful insights. 


Journal Prompts - Eleven sessions, on: 

- Getting to know Self Love

- Getting to know joy

- Getting to know your body

- Getting to know resistance

- Getting to know emotional intimacy

- Getting to know your boundaries

- Getting to know your inner-critic

- Getting to know your shadow

- Getting to know your "Golden shadow"

- Getting to know your purpose

- Getting to know integration

“I have learned ways to practise self care and I have applied them. I have learned to show myself as much understanding and respect as I have shown others. I have learned that I need to be consequent when setting boundaries. I have started to accept and love myself for who I am, in all of my facets.” - Steffi 🌟

About Joy

Hi, I'm Joy, if you've not worked with me before, I highly recommend reading the story I've shared on my blog about the birth of this course. I explain more about how this came about, so make a cuppa and sit down for the full story! It's here to read if you want to know more

Here's what you need to know though. I have lived the path I set out here. I came from a dark place, with core wounds I never thought I would feel free from, to where I am today with a thriving healing practice, beautiful authentic and conscious relationships, and self love that I feel in my body, that I can access even when I'm having a bad day. It is by far the most meaningful journey I've taken, so I am sincere when offering it to you. 

What I offer is a transmission bringing together my lived experience, my Internal Family Systems training, and my divine energy healing training to a post-awakening level. I am skilled and experienced at holding a deep group energetic container with love and compassion, being both gentle and truthful. My style is clear, detailed, precise, and grounded.

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“I found the journeys and meditations very powerful. The meditations gave me a lot of insight into myself and the journeys just felt natural to me. I was able to go quite deep into the journeys and I always came out of them feeling very happy.” - Steffi 🌟

Investment and Booking Info

Get investment and booking info

Pop your details in here to zip through to the next page, where you can see investment info and book a call with me to check that what the course is offering is a good fit for you now. I always speak 1-2-1 with everyone new to my work - it's a friendly chat for up to half an hour - and if we both feel a rightness by the end of the call, great, otherwise I may make other recommendations.  

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